Friday, November 30, 2007

Le Grand Voyage!

We’re here! Finally. What a trip. So much to say!!!! Here is a picture from before we moved out of our place:

And here is one now:



As you can see, not much has changed, really. We are still living out of a ton of suitcases, just in a different place on a different continent.

We survived 30 hours of plane/airport travel and thanks to having a charming child and a great friend from the Embassy, we were able to zip right through the insanity of the Bamako airport on Wednesday night and finally crash at our hotel around 1am.
The plane rides were Marshall’s first. I meant to document that with a picture, but I have already been scolded for packing my camera in my checked luggage, so unfortunately, this one documenting his first time in a foreign country(the Paris airport) will have to do.

For those of you with babies looking to fly internationally, Air France is THE BEST. First, they LOVE babies. He was cooed at and tickled enough to make a grandparent proud. Second, they offer them first class service. Marshall had a great little bassinet that snapped on the wall in front of my seat, he got a few little plush toys to play with and if we had wanted, he could have gotten a baby meal with another toy and goodies to boot. He got some rest. He did great.

We’ve been staying at a relatively swank hotel since arriving here(the Mande for those RPCV friends of ours who are reading this), and I have to admit, I feel a bit sheltered. Not only because of the swankiness, but it is also somewhat isolated from town. Tomorrow, we are moving to the Hotel Tamana(just behind the Express and Akwaba) where things are cheaper and more centrally located.

I can’t really explain what its like to be back besides great. We’re both already letting go of all those things that bind us such as clocks, levels of cleanliness, etc. We are laughing with new friends and enjoying being here as “real” adults in the minds of Malians. See, before, to be 23, single and childless, it was as if we were still children. But now, I see things changing. Although we are still white as can be and obviously different, we are more equal. The child breaks down so many walls and we are welcomed into a Mali that I, for sure, don’t remember.

Today we really braved Bamako(yesterday was mostly spent recouperating). We saw Ian’s main informant and dear friend, Kara. We walked through the Grande Marchee in front of the Mosque before prayer time on Friday(this would fit the images you may have of a bustling third world African country, for sure). We took tea, ate some Lebanese food, got our feet dirty and enjoyed a cold beverage under a mango tree.

I’m much more excited than I thought I would be. Internet is currently pretty pricey, so I hope to figure out how to get it cheaper so I can keep this up to date. For now, I’m having to respond to emails and do this in word and cut and paste. Hope to have a place to live and all of that arranged by the middle of next week.

Happy holiday season to all of you!

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Packing and Saying Goodbye

Well, I was going to post a picture of all our stuff, but honestly, have no idea where the camera has ended up in all this mess. Actually, we are doing pretty well. I am trying to release some of my "stuff" neuroses that all moms have. What if he wants his bath time book on the plane and the baby faces one doesn't cut it? What if he goes through more diapers than I pack for traveling? Should I bring more clothes/blankets/toys? Do I have enough bug spray and sunscreen?
Bamako isn't the end of the world. I know that there are babies there that are just fine without all of these things and if things are needed, they can easily be obtained...its just stuff issues. Seems that all moms I talk to have it. Thats the real reason our diaper bags are so damn big. I must admit, I did get a new bag for the trip. My current one was simply not big enough.

We've seen a lot a great friends over the past couple of weeks as we wrap things up here in Eugene. Its amazing the wonderful people we've met in such a short period of time since having Marshall. He is going to miss certain people a lot. His big buddy Isaac and all the great walks they took together...sweet babies he smiles at a lot in movement class like Maddox, Arianna and Fiona...his dear auntie Becky who always makes him giggle.

But most of all he'll miss his canine brothers Flynt and Max who today are hopping in the car with us and going out to Eastern Oregon where they will romp and play in the wilderness for the next nine months with their cousins. Its a sad day. Who will lick his feet clean? Who will sit patiently while he yanks on their fur and screams with glee so loud their ears should bleed? They have been good, protective and sweet big brothers and we can only hope they will be as patient and sweet when Marshall returns as a toddler able to chase them and grab even larger and tighter those handfulls of hair.

Just about one week from this moment we will be in Mali. I will try to find the camera to capture first impressions, plane rides and the works...

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!